How to Meditate - Advice For Beginners

A while ago a friend introduced me to the concept ofterm benefits, please don't expect everything to come
Zen philosophy. It was mentioned in passing, and I wasall at once. With patience, the rewards of meditation
left to explore the subject on my own. At first thewill gradually bring about larger changes in your life.
teachings of Zen appeared to be an unsolvable riddle;The only thing you should strive to anticipate is the
however, there was something about the paradoxicalwonderful feeling of your next breath.
concepts of Zen that seemed to hold an inherent truth,Bring all of your attention to the next breath that will
though I had no idea why.bring life into your body; the next breath that will allow
What I did know was that Zen meditation held the keyyou to have the thoughts that run through your mind;
to the riddle. But what was the key to Zen meditation?the next breath that will allow you to enjoy time spent
The instructions for meditating were deceptively simple,with loved ones; the next breath that brings a pleasant
just focus on your breathing while seated in asensation of joy and energy and aliveness.
comfortable posture. Is that it? If there was more to it, IOther than that don't anticipate anything!
certainly wasn't getting anything else out of thoseControlling the mind - is it possible? Fighting against a
enigmatic Zen teachers.tide of thoughts flooding the mind can stir up feelings of
The truth is - much like any other skill worth mastering,frustration.
meditation requires time and commitment. DeeperThat's completely to be expected!
understanding is achieved through progress.Your mind doesn't like the feeling of being out of
Getting started with meditation practice Here are thecontrol. It may often try to reassert itself as the guiding
essential instructions for beginning meditation practice.force, bringing your attention back to its comfortable
There are other concerns you may have, which I'll trysense of self.
to address further on in the article.So acknowledge it, then go back to your breathing.
1 - Set aside time in your schedule.It will be impossibleNotice that the thoughts are simply passing by,
to sit still, and focus on the present if you have otherimpermanent as a cloud. They have the power to stir
things that you need to do. Set aside 10-20 minutesyou, to incite emotions and make you want to act;
where you know you won't be interrupted.however, you can choose not to react to any of
2 - Grab a pillow You don't need any specialthese things.
equipment for meditation practice. If you can sitHow else do you expect to free yourself from the
somewhere comfortably, then you have everythingendless cycle of thinking? If you are taking up
you need. Some people prefer to sit in a chair, whilemeditation, then you must realize how it can help you
others might want to invest in a zafu and zabuton. It'sdeal with distracting or otherwise unproductive
up to you. As long as you can sit for a little whilethoughts. There are other ways to deal with the
without your limbs falling asleep, then you've chosen aproblem, but I find that meditation is the most direct.
good spot. Make it a habit to meditate in the sameWell I suppose there is always death. No feelings, no
spot daily. This is your happy place.perception, no problem.
3 - Before sitting do a light stretch This helps to relaxThere will always be problems to resolve in life.
any tension in the body, and clears the mind; it alsoThoughts about what your plans are for this weekend,
helps you remain comfortable for extended periods ofor something that upset you a few days ago, have no
sitting.relevance to this present moment. These thoughts are
4 - Get into a comfortable seated position As I saidsimply distractions that serve no productive purpose.
before, this one depends on you. If you are flexibleAs such, it's best to make the effort to let them go. If
then you may want to try the traditional lotus position.Ifa string of thoughts begin to form around a subject,
you have back problems, or your legs fall asleep whenmake yourself aware of what's happening and
you cross them, then you can sit on a couch or evenpromptly return to meditation. One of the benefits of
lay down. I don't recommend laying down, unless it'spracticing meditation is that you will soon recognize
absolutely necessary. The point of meditation is not toyour mental habits.
fall asleep. Meditation is about attaining a relaxed yetIn this way meditation will help you realize the attention
alert state of mind, make sure your posture helps youthat you are giving to your thoughts. It's only attention
reach this state.that brings these thoughts into creation. Once you learn
5 - Now, clear your mind and focus on your breathhow to focus your attention away from a wandering
This part is easier said than done. Something that I findmind, you will begin to notice the simple pleasure of
beneficial is to begin with a few deep belly breathes.Ifbeing in the present.
you aren't familiar with belly breathing, then IBeing in the present The phrases "be here now and
recommend doing a bit of research. It's also calledlive in the moment" may be cliched, but there is a
diaphragmatic breathing, and it's very beneficial for you.reason they are used so often. They aptly describe
It can help reduce stress throughout the body and is athe state of mind you are aiming for with meditation. A
more efficient, natural way to breath.relaxed yet alert state is a good balance to strive for;
Focus on the sensations of your breath as it entersit will help you experience present awareness to its
the body. Feel how the air cools the nasal cavity as itfullest extent.
rushes into the lungs. Listen to how deep the breathCommit to the practice and try a variety of methods
sounds when you really pay attention to it. I know, itThere are countless meditation techniques. Some will
can be boring, but that's kind of the point. You'll begin towork better for you than others. Don't be afraid to try
notice the richness of the moment as your meditationdifferent things.
progresses. For now, just remind yourself howOnce you find something that works stick with it.
beneficial the practice is and why you're doing it, thenSome people will find that it's quite easy to pay
gently return your awareness back to the breath.attention to the breath. Others may feel fidgety, as if
Dealing with expectations It's not reasonable to expecttheir body is coursing with energy and they are unable
to sit down with a perfectly serene mind and have theto sit still.
secrets of the universe unravel before you. However,The variety of meditation techniques exist because
It's up to you if you want to hold such highwe are all unique. Find the technique that fits your
expectations. Best of luck with that.particular style, then master it with every ounce of
Do your best to cultivate a playful attitude; it will helpconcentration at your disposal.
you avoid disappointment if you don't attain instantHere are few key points to remember: - The breath
clarity.and the mind are interconnected, paying attention to
I've found that it's much more rewarding to challengethe breath is a powerful way to focus the mind. - It's
the extent of my own patience. Will I allow myself theimportant to have an objective attitude towards
time to sit and relax without worrying about thethoughts and feelings that arise during meditation.
day-to-day drama? Can I afford to spend this time forObserve them, and let them go. - Do a body scan
reflection?every so often. If you feel tension, do your best to
I hope so. Otherwise my meditation practice would berelax that part of the body.
short lived.Please take all of this advice lightly. If something works
While short periods of meditation practice do have longfor you, then use it; otherwise feel free to disregard it.