Relaxed Mind - Relaxed Body - How Self Hypnosis Puts Us Back in Touch

Self Hypnosisfocussed state. Your body should soon start to feel
Relax, we are told, time and again. But it does notlimp and compliant. Closing the eyes is usually
always work - the body wants to relax, but the mind isassociated with this state so allow your eyes to close
not sure. Sometimes our mind becomes overactivegently. I normally use a full body scan from head to
and does not allow us the rest we need. The dangertoe, including the bits of our bodies we usually forget
of letting our minds run on unchecked is that we couldabout e.g. the soles of the feet, scalp, eye lashes,
be inadvertently creating all kinds of problems forfingernails, the jaw and tongue. Just go with the
ourselves. Self hypnosis is a safe and easy way to gorelaxation as you are doing this.
beyond mere relaxation. It allows you to become calm2) Going Deeper into Trance
enough to give the deepest recesses of your mind aThis is the bit where once you are relaxed you tell
message it will answer.your body to go even deeper. This is beyond mere
relaxation. I like to go to my favorite beach, down a big
- better self stress managementflight of stairs, or circle down a spiral staircase, or take
- greater ability to withstand paina lift from a tall building down into the basement. The
- improved health and immune system functionidea is to really enjoy the sensation of deepening and
- improved clarity of thoughtthe body numbness. You will know once you are
- greater control of your moodthere. Enjoy it, but remain aware throughout. This is not
- ability to overcome negative habits Even if you use itsleeping. Take all the time it takes to notice fully that it's
just to restore energy, it may be enough to help youreally nice to go even deeper. Then, don't hesitate to
face your problems with greater insight.go even further until you are fully in a deep trance.
Getting Started3) Seeing what you Want
All you have to do is go into deep relaxation and thenThis is the fun bit where you get to see hear feel,
stay aware enough to direct the flow of images. Doingrealize in your imagination in great detail every bit of
this enables you to have a dialogue with thosethe goal you want. This could be confidence, or
sometimes difficult or inaccessible parts of yourselfaccelerated learning, more productivity at work, or a
that often create sabotage in your life. Through wordsslimmer body.
and images anyone can learn to speak the languageMake it so it seems real to you and believable. Enjoy
of the unconscious and gain a greater degree ofeach moment as this is the bit that joins the dots to
control over your habits, beliefs and values and thusthe subconscious mind and leaves the imprint that will
your life.bring you closer to your dream. Frame each idea
I have known how to use self-hypnosis for over threepositively, work with your imagination and use positive
decades now but it only recently that I realised its vastlanguage. See the results not the problems. Also it is
potential for connecting the imagination to our daily life.useful to use the present tense, to imagine your goals
It's like being a practical dreamer. You make youras already happening around you. 'I feel full on a very
dreams work for you. Once you gain control of thelight meal,' and 'I feel happy with the body I have', not 'I
constant inner self talk, you become more able todon't feel hungry anymore' or 'I am no longer
influence aspects of your life that would otherwiseoverweight.' Avoid the words 'no' and 'don't' as your
have become fixed and out of reach.brain will then only focus on what you don't want.
Brain Research4) Coming Back
A 1967 study by stress researcher Edmund JacobsonThis is easy. Once you have done all you want in the
found that visualizing an activity produces small butgoals phase, you decide to come back. You can count
measurable reactions in the muscles involved in theslowly back 5 -1 or just be aware of sounds in the
imagined activity. He said, 'an anxious mind cannot existroom again. Make your voice louder and more
in a relaxed body'. Repeated mental rehearsal implantsenergetic as you waken yourself. This should restore
the learned memory of a successful action, and alsoyou back to normal feeling fresh and revitalised.
conditions the unconscious mind with the outcome youWell done, you have just completed your first session
expect to achieve.of self hypnosis. Make a note in your diary of any
Bear in mind also that a number of studies show thatchanges that you notice and repeat sessions as
the brain does not distinguish between real andneeded.
imagined experience. This is amazing as it means thatSummary
when you imagine yourself doing something, you canMake sure your self hypnosis is about something that
get the same physiological reactions as when youyou really want to change and that your intention is
actually do them. Great athletes are already aware ofstrong enough to carry you through, even to repeat
this secret and use it to excel in performance.sessions. Write your script in four stages as
Self Hypnosis Stepssuggested:
Make a strong intention to change something. It's best1) Relax
to plan it first. Write it down, and then read it back to2) Go Deeper
yourself. Even better, make a recording of it, so you3) Your Goals
can relax and just listen to the sound of your own4) Return
voice on headphones. Take about half an hour for oneSwitch off your phone and give at least half an hour to
session. When you are ready, find a safe, comfortableeach session. Do it in a secluded area where you will
place to begin. Be sure you will not be disturbed.not be disturbed. Be patient on waiting for or noticing
Basically there should be four clear stages to your selfany changes. Do it as often as needed to tackle any
hypnosis talk or self prepared script.issues that need working on. Finally, remember to note
1) Relaxingin your diary the results in the direction of your goals
This is the bit where you tell your body to relax. Youand begin to enjoy the fruits of this powerful technique.
go from the normal waking state to an internally